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Why Only Let the Straights Be Miserable?

Comedy and politics = a good thing. Justin Long and Mike White play a gay married couple who experience the same misery as straight married people. Hilarious.

It’s all for the cause of continuing dialogue about Prop 8. Go to makehomosexualsmarry.com to join the Facebook group.

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All Hubby Hubby in Georgetown

Liberal, hippie-loving corporation Ben & Jerry’s joins the marriage equality festivities today. Keith Spangler and Andreas Vellios will enter the Georgetown Ben & Jerry’s Scoop Shop as bachelors, but leave as legal husbands. Hooray, Spangler and Vellios! Hooray, D.C.!

According to DCist:

Rev. Lance Orndorff will officiate the ceremony, but the couple will also be celebrating with the actual Jerry — Jerry Greenfield, the co-founder of Ben & Jerry’s — who plans to be in attendance to offer a toast and say a few words about his company’s history of promoting social justice.

I love the way that Ben & Jerry’s has never shied away from the company’s progressive politics, like re-christening the name of my personal flavor, Chubby Hubby, to “Hubby Hubby.” A little bit of corporate citizenship goes a long way.

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Kids Get It. Why Don’t Adults?

OMG, as the kids say (via text, of course). Calen, possibly but probably not quite a fifth grader, figures it all out.

Possibly my favorite YouTube video ever.

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The Power of Two Men Kissing

What’s in a kiss? How does a photograph of a gay couple kissing differ from written text of the same image?

The Washington Post‘s ombudsman, Andrew Alexander, responded to reader criticism (and subscription cancellations) over a recent front-page photograph of a couple kissing. That the kiss was photographed and published was not the issue; that the kiss involved a same-sex couple was.

Alexander likens the response from outraged Post readers to public anger when photos showed blacks mixing with whites. He defends the Post’s publication of the photograph as a mirror of societal change:

Did the Post go too far? Of course not. The photo deserved to be in newspaper and on its Web site, and it warranted front-page display.

News photos capture reality. And the prominent display reflects the historic significance of what was occurring. The recent D.C. Council decision to approve same-sex marriage was the culmination of a decades-long gay rights fight for equality. Same-sex marriage is now legal in the District. The photo of Ames and Ariga kissing simply showed joy that would be exhibited by any couple planning to wed – especially a couple who previously had been denied the legal right to marry.

More than two dozen readers cancelled their subscriptions. Reasons varied from outright vitriol (one angry caller said: “That kind of stuff makes normal people want to throw up. People have kids who are being exposed to this crap. I will be glad when your rag goes out of business. Real men marry women.”) to the wish to relegate coverage of gay rights to the inner pages of the paper.

Wrote Lee Miller of Columbia: “I would appreciate it if your cover pictures would not be so disturbing where my kids can see it easily on the kitchen table… please don’t shove this “Gay” business in our face. This is something that should have shown up on an inside page or two (without the picture).”

I’m often troubled when arguments of what’s good for children are raised. Two people in healthy relationships expressing their love are depicted in the media constantly–as long as it’s a man and a woman. There’s a double standard–and, as the philosopher Martha Nussbaum recently wrote, a literal disgust–when the two people in love are of the same sex. We can’t stomach the notion of gay sex, and for many, this is what is implied with the image of a kiss.

Though the Washington Post‘s photo generated vocal response, it’s somewhat heartening to know that the end result was only a few cancelled subscriptions. As Alexander notes, there is a societal change happening in perceptions of gay marriage. The newspaper’s reportage of this change, in which LGBT lives are more accepted both in D.C. and on a national level, is valid and unbiased.

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New Marriages Feted with New Name

hubbyhubby-pintOh, Ben and Jerry. The infamous (and infamously liberal) ice cream company celebrates the legalization of same-sex marriage in their home state of Vermont by renaming their popular “Chubby Hubby” flavor to “Hubby Hubby”. This has been my favorite ice cream flavor–the pretzels and peanut butter perfectly mixed with vanilla ice cream–even before its spanking new name.

In April, Jon Stewart joked about Ben & Jerry’s renaming the flavor in a monologue. Instead of “Chubby Hubby” it would be called “Chubby Hubbies”. Apparently, the B & J folks didn’t go for that one.

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» "Pinays," AGNI, Spring 2016
» "Dandy," Post Road, Spring 2015
» "Wrestlers," Fifth Wednesday, Spring 2014
» "Babies," Joyland, August 2011
» "Nicolette and Maribel," BostonNow, May 2007
» "The Rice Bowl," Memorious, March 2005
» "The Rules of the Game," Screaming Monkeys: Critiques of Asian American Images (Coffee House Press, June 2003)
» "Deaf Mute," Growing Up Filipino (Philippine American Literary House, April 2003)
» "Good Men ," Genre, April 2003
» "The Foley Artist," Drunken Boat, April 2002
» "Squatters," Take Out: Queer Writing from Asian Pacific America (Asian Am. Writers' Workshop, 2001)
» "Deaf Mute," The North American Review, Jan 2001
» "The First Lady of Our Filipino Nation," The Boston Phoenix, 1999
» "Paper Route," Flyway Literary Review, 1996
» "Brainy Smurf and the Council Bluffs Pride Parade," Generation Q (Alyson, 1996)
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